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Perfect Holiday Gift…2017 Art of Friendship Note Cards

December 6, 2017

Our 2017 Art of Friendship Note Cards are printed & ready to purchase! Each set has 5 cards and 100% of the $5.00 purchase price benefits BBBS of Erie County! You can purchase at any of Fowler’s Chocolates six retail shops located in Buffalo, Cheektowaga, East Aurora, Hamburg and Tonawanda. They make a wonderful holiday gift for family, friends, teachers, neighbors or a host/hostess!

The Art of Friendship is generously sponsored by Ingram Micro.


The BIG Give!

November 14, 2017

Our Annual Big Give campaign is underway! This is your chance between now and November 28th to help us raise $6,250 to support our one-to-one mentoring programs  By giving to one of our Big Brother or Big Sister BIG Give Fundraisers or by giving to the general BIG Give page, you can help create a new match!  To learn more, click here.  A BIG thanks!

Year In Review

September 14, 2017

With the generous support of our community, the lives of over 400 children were impacted by a Big Brother or Big Sister in 2016. It is our pleasure to share with you our Annual Report that includes:

  • A Special Story about a 10-Year Friendship
  • Update on our expanding High School Bigs Mentoring Program
  • Recap of our Special Events
  • 2016 Financial Statement
  • January 2016 – December 2016 Program Outcomes

Click now to read the above stories and more in our Annual Report.

As always, a BIG thank you for joining us in making a BIG difference in the lives of children!

Fore The Children Golf Tournament a BIG Success!

August 3, 2017

A BIG thank you to all of our sponsors and golfers that helped to raise over $50,000 at our 11th Annual Fore the Children Golf Tournament presented by PCB Piezotronics-MTS Systems Corporation. We hope everyone had an amazing day on the course raising funds to match more kids facing adversity with caring mentors! Check out the photos here!

Congrats to this year’s 2017 Hedwig “De” Moss Leadership Award HonoreesScott Rafferty Memorial Tournament.  The tournament, which honors the late Scott Rafferty who was a Big Brother with BBBS of Erie County while a college student, has raised over $50,000 for BBBSEC!  Pictured above with our CEO, Thomas Guagliardo, the award namesake, De Moss & our BoD Chair Emeritus David T. Hore are two of Scott’s Phi Kappa Theta Fraternity brothers who help to organize the yearly event: Mike Nersinger and Mike Scibetta.  

Lastly, a BIG congratulations this year’s Fore the Children Tournament Winners!

1st Place: Dansa & D’Arata

2nd Place: Scott Rafferty Memorial Tournament 

3rd Place: Whitesand Family, LP.  

To view a full list of our Specialty Sponsors click here.  To view all event photos click here.

Women Who Move the City Wednesday- Congrats Cheryl Bird!

May 3, 2017

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County is honored to celebrate  Cheryl Bird as this week’s featured Women Who Move the City Wednesday (WWMTC) Honoree! Cheryl joined the Daemen College Center for Sustainable Communities and Civic Engagement in 2002 as Seneca Babcock Community Coordinator, was promoted to Director of Community Relations for the CSCCE, and in 2004 was asked to serve as the Executive Director. The CSCCE partners with three disadvantaged Buffalo neighborhoods, Seneca Babcock, the West Side and Broadway Fillmore, to address educational, economic and environmental needs. They sustain long term collaborations with community agencies in the three neighborhoods to benefit the communities, and Daemen faculty and students. The Center’s partner agencies provide service-learning sites for over 200 Daemen students every semester.

Cheryl founded, and serves as, Board Chair of the Seneca Street Community Development Corporation, a not-for-profit that provides much needed financial and human support to the disadvantaged Seneca Babcock community of Buffalo. This small not-for-profit provides a free after school program, enrichment activities and dinner for 65 children and teens daily during the school year, and weekly summer programming and field trips for children who would otherwise never leave their small neighborhood. The Seneca Street CDC also established the Babcock Community Garden and partners with the community on many activities.

Cheryl has been a very active member of the Seneca Street Church for the past 23 years, where her husband is the pastor. She chairs the Friends of Seneca Street (FOSS) group, and collaborates with many churches, companies and individuals outside Seneca Babcock to develop partnerships to strengthen the church and the people it serves.

Cheryl also serves as co-chair of the Somali Bantu Community Organization which works to benefit Somali Bantu refugees on the west side of Buffalo. Cheryl has become very close to this community through her work with refugees at Lafayette High School and with Jewish Family Service. She is a mentor and passionate advocate for those who are served by the organization. 

As shared in her nomination for this award, “Cheryl’s passion for working with the refugee community and with disadvantaged children is contagious! She is a strong advocate for refugees and the realities they face when they arrive in Buffalo with only a knapsack full of possessions. Cheryl is always inspiring people to work with the disadvantaged youth in Seneca Babcock, and encouraging them to work with a child or teen who has no adult role models in their lives.”

Cheryl’s background includes over 20 years of experience in the business world, including management, consulting and legal positions, in Atlanta, Washington, D.C., and Buffalo. She has a Master of Science Degree in Executive Leadership and Change from Daemen College, and a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Political Science from State University of New York at Oswego.

Cheryl was recognized by the South Buffalo Chamber of Commerce with a Community Service Award for her work in the Seneca Babcock neighborhood, and received the School/Community Partnership Award from United Neighborhoods Community Action Organization. In 2012 she was honored to receive the Daemen College Associates Outstanding Community Service Award and in 2013 received an award from the Daemen College Social Work Department for her contributions to Daemen College and the community at large. Cheryl was humbled and honored to be able to accept the Community Partnership Award in 2015 from Jewish Family Service of Buffalo and Erie County.  Cheryl resides in West Amherst with her husband, Brian and enjoys caring for 3 indoor and 5 outdoor cats.

Congrats Cheryl! We hope you will join us to celebrate Cheryl and our six other outstanding Women Who Move the City Honorees on Wednesday, May 10th at the Hotel Lafayette.  Tickets are going fast so click now to purchase before the May 8th at midnight deadline!

Women Who Move the City Wednesday- Congrats Deborah Tangelder!

April 26, 2017

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County is honored to celebrate  Deborah Tangelder as this week’s featured Women Who Move the City Wednesday (WWMTC) Honoree!  Deborah is the owner of The Perfect Gift & Clothing Boutique, located in historic Clarence Center. The storefront name, The Perfect Gift, was inspired by the Bible verse James 1:17 – “Every good and perfect gift comes from above.” Deb considers it a privilege to make a difference and that there is a purpose in her store that goes well beyond beautiful things. It’s about touching lives and hearts, and inspiring others.

Since opening 14 years ago, she has used her business to help in multiple capacities as part of “The Perfect Gift Gives Back” project. From local causes, to schools, churches, and national organizations…she follows her heart & faith. Her theme is simple, Shop Local and Help Many. Countless organizations have been helped including: Big Brothers Big Sisters of Erie County, Roswell – Jacquie Hirsch for A.L.L. FoundationCornerstone Manor, Stop the Clot Alliance, Women & Children’s Hospital , Let Them LOL, Wear ‘N Share and Flight 3407 Families

Each fall, Deborah’s store offers “The Gratitude Tree”, in conjunction with a local Clarence Center family. Community members complete and hang a tag with what they are grateful for.  During the holidays, it converts into “The Giving Tree” where visitors take an angel tag to help a person in need.  This past year, over 150 local WNY families received holiday gifts. Additionally, the store has housed a Women’s Bible Study, which has grown to over 100 women, representing dozens of churches across Buffalo. 

Deborah also has a true appreciation for local talent and has supported over 50 WNY artists through the years , serving as an incubator for their success.  She also strives to work with national brand companies that are equally philanthropic and purposeful in their business mission, such as her jewelry lines that fundraise to fight against human trafficking, homelessness, providing provision in crisis relief. 

Deborah is a UB School of Management Graduate with a background in Sales & Marketing. Deborah is a founding member of the Meet in the Center Merchants Association, that offers family festivals & community beautification projects.  She is a recipient of the Amherst Chamber of Commerce President’s Award for her role in community efforts associated with the Flight 3407 crisis in Clarence Center and also received the Clarence Chamber of Commerce Young Leader Award. Deborah resides with her husband Nick, and daughters, Brooke and Amanda in Clarence.

Congrats Deborah! We hope you will join us to celebrate Deborah and our six other outstanding Women Who Move the City Honorees on Wednesday, May 10th at the Hotel Lafayette.  Tickets are going fast so click now to purchase!